FREEDOM FROM COMPULSIVE BEHAVIOURS.
I help women like you unlock the future you crave, free of the cycle of nail biting, skin picking or hair pulling, so that you can step into the life you know is waiting for you.
YOU HAVE BIG DREAMS AND A CLEAR VISION FOR YOUR FUTURE
but something you battle keeps you from reaching your full potential and living the life you want.
You’ve worked so hard to build the life you have. You’re talented, driven, respected and successful in all other areas of your life - but despite all you’ve achieved, there’s something you keep hidden. You have a private compulsive behaviour holding you back.
It’s exhausting, frustrating, and at times heartbreaking. You may feel trapped in a cycle of shame and self-blame, unable to break the cycle of nail biting, skin picking or hair pulling that’s sabotaging you. You wonder why, despite all your strength and determination, you can’t seem to stop. You long to break free and leave them behind so that you can reclaim your health, confidence and unlock the freedom to pursue your goals and ambitions.
Imagine a life free of the compulsion to pick, pull or bite. Imagine a life where it’s possible to step confidently into everything you’re capable of - your career, your relationships, your sense of self, all thriving when you are no longer controlled by these behaviours.
That’s the life that’s waiting for you.

YOU’VE TRIED ASKING FOR HELP
but you’re tired of being misunderstood and feeling let down.
Y0U’VE WORKED TOO HARD TO LET THIS STRUGGLE HOLD YOU BACK.
My approach is different - it’s effective, deep and practical, combining trusted therapeutic methods with a profound and unique understanding of all aspects of compulsive behaviours.
I have dedicated my practice to working with clients who battle with picking, biting and pulling. I help them to heal, reclaim their confidence and create lives they love. My experience, commitment and deep understanding of your struggle mean you’ll never feel alone and unseen in our journey and it’s my commitment to you that I will use all my capabilities to help you achieve the change you desire.
I’m Marian Staal, I’m an EMDR Practitioner, Integrative Psychotherapist and ICF Accredited Coach and I’m here to walk alongside you every step of the way.
THE BRAIN BODY CHANGE PATHWAY
The goal of our work is to release you from your compulsions as quickly and sustainably as possible and to equip you with the necessary awareness and capabilities to ensure you have a future where you are fully in control.
Very broadly, this is a three step process:
Understanding where the behaviour came from and what sustains it now, where it is no longer needed or wanted.
Processing and resolving all underlying factors that drive the behaviour and maintain the impulses.
The development of alternative strategies to help you thrive and a real and compelling vision of the future for you to step into with greater capacity and resilience.
MY PACKAGES
BRAIN BODY CONNECT
Intensive Online Path
We’ll follow the pathway, meeting online for 6 x 90 minute sessions.
You’ll progress rapidly as you uncover, understand and resolve both the underlying and current factors that drive and maintain the compulsion to pick, pull or bite.
You’ll develop a greater sense of awareness of your responses and develop control over your nervous system and body-based urges.
You’ll rewire limiting core beliefs and, with increased insight, reduce feelings of internal shame and self-judgment and these will no longer fuel the behaviour.
You’ll create a sustainable sense of inner calm, and resilience within your nervous system and develop alternative coping strategies allowing you to actively manage and disengage from your behaviour quickly and effectively.
Book a call to find out more here.
BRAIN BODY CHANGE
Intensive Therapeutic Retreat in France
You’ll come away for four days (five nights) of intensive, focused, transformational work, tailored exclusively to resolving your struggle.
We’ll work one to one and this process will be the primary focus of your time here.
Following the pathway, you’ll make rapid progress towards fully disengaging from your compulsive urge to pick, pull or bite. We’ll work intensely but gently, and you will be fully supported to focus on disengaging from your unwanted behaviour.
You’ll also develop the ongoing awareness and resources you’ll need to manage your responses both now and in the bright future you’ll be stepping into.
This is an immersive, transformational experience and takes place at Oakhaven, a small retreat centre in the breathtaking natural environment of Southwest France. This will give you the time, space and focus needed for this level of work.
Book a call to find out more here.
Cost
The total cost of our work will vary depending on which option is right for you and your situation. After finding out a bit more about you, I will be able to help you towards deciding which would be best. I may also suggest an option not listed here.
My fees vary depending on the package that you choose and I will support you in making the choice that will be both manageable and serves your best interests.
I have a tremendous amount of respect for your willingness to engage in the process of disengaging from your unwanted behaviour, so get in touch here and book a consultation call where we will be able to discuss the best option for you.
PATHFINDER SESSION.
A free 45 minute session to begin breaking free of your unwanted compulsive behaviour.
Are you feeling stuck and exhausted by your struggle with skin picking, hair pulling, nail biting, or another irresistible behaviour?
Are you tired of feeling ashamed, blaming yourself for having “too little willpower” and “being too weak” to make the changes you know you need to?
Do you want to make the RIGHT changes that will bring you REAL results, following a proven pathway with a specialist practitioner who works with clients just like you?
This free introductory session offers a safe, non-judgmental space to:
- Understand what drives your compulsion and why it feels so irresistible.
- Share your experience - only what you’re comfortable with - in a supportive space with someone who truly understands.
- Discover how an EMDR and Integrative Therapy based approach can promote fast, long-term change.
- Connect with an inspiring vision of the future where you are free of the unwanted behaviour and the compulsions driving it.
This is your chance to connect (commitment free), ask questions, and take real steps towards that brighter future you know is waiting.